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Of Laughter and Tears , Of Love and Hatred.

Just a fine line that separates 2 weirdest phenomenon that happens in our lives.

Based on what i wrote on top, come to think of it. It's rather true. When we're sad we cry am I right? But when we're happy we will say that we're so happy till tears fall .. so ain't that contradicting? Another reason to ponder is when you love a person, you'll hate that person as well because of all the things that you have done for him/her at the end of the day it doesn't turn out the way it should be at least it doesn't turn out the way we wanted it to be. Sometimes we just wanted to be cherished, cared and loved. But what is the definition of being cherished? Cared? and of all Loved?

As i said it's really a weird phenomenon. People laugh when their happy, but some even laugh when their sad. Like I said a fine line that separates between laughter and tears. To me, it's good to cry and shed tears at times. It proves that we still have a soul in us. We cry because our souls are tormented, we cry because emotions rule before us, we cry because we are human and not God. But crying is enough to relieve us, not doing anything stupid to harm ourselves physically. So to the first phenomenon, cry when you want to cry, express yourselves thoroughly because that's what we are as human beings. Without expressions or emotions we're just mere robots. The same concept applies to laughter. Laugh when you want to laugh. Laugh and smile always for we don't know when a person might fall into your laughter and want you to laugh always.

As for the second phenomenon, if I could define love then I think I can be a wealthy, but nope. I can't define love for its too well undefined. Based on physics, it's force and magnitude is infinite, based on chemistry its catalyst and reactions are infinite, based on computer logics, there's no logics we can't program love. based on mathematics and calculations, we can't measure love nor is there any SI unit for love .. so at the end of day it's just infinity. But like what i said earlier, there's only a fine line that separates love and hatred. Often after being so deeply in love it turns to hatred for one side or another felt betrayed eg, law of conservation of energy states that the total amount of energy in any isolated system remains constant but cannot be recreated, although it may change forms, e.g. friction turns kinetic energy into thermal energy. In thermodynamics. But ain't love supposed to be a good thing? how can it turn ugly? Maybe it's like LOTR where the elves such beautiful beings thru hatred will turn to ugly and hideous goblins. I think we should not ever have those kind of thoughts in our lives. Hatred is such a negative energy, if put to a certain amount it can be disastrous and hatred evolves a person. Therefore if there was once love , let i be love.Don't ever turn or evolved it to hatred. Love can be lowered or increased.. as i said it can't be measured but can be lowered to and infinite amount as it can also be increased to an infinite amount, but don't turn it into hatred.

Love turning into hatred is never like the law of conservation of energy because love is ruled based on emotions, In the world of emotions there's no specific law that states any theories by anyone. The only person that states the rules are us, ourselves. So be wise it controlling your emotions at times use logics to comprehend with emotions. If emotions rule too much, it's not a good sign because it always tend to loose control.

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This phrase i got it from my friend's blog. Thanks Man! hehehe

“Love is patient; love is kind and envies no one.

Love is never boastful, nor conceited, nor rude; never selfish, not quick to take offense.
There is nothing love cannot face; there is no limit to its faith, its hope, and endurance.
In a word, there are three things that last forever: faith, hope, and love;
but the greatest of them all is love.”

It's stated there out of faith , hope and love, love is the greatest of them all. I think it's perfectly true, it's based on love, people give in to their guilt and be honest, it's through love that makes people cry , it's through love that makes people be patient and wait if i were to state i think the list will go on forever. The love that I am saying covers everything, friends, family, lovers and everything.

But many people misunderstood that love should always be blissful, where when a person meets love, it sweeps them off their feet and so on. To me love was never blissful or it can swept you off your feet, it's just based on movies. The actual fact is love comes with sacrifices especially unconditional. Love is never a business don't expect that when you have given out love you must have it in return because it will never will. It's either you stick to this concept or don't love. Love is hardship, where patience comes into play all the time, it takes time to really understand love or some might not understand at all. Love is not like fireworks because fireworks sparkles in the sky for a few minutes only, love is an everlasting emotion that always linger in our hearts. No one can replicate love or no one can define love. That makes love the greatest of them all for it comes with hardship, sacrifices, patience. The highest value where one human being can achieve.

For guys, if you really love your partner, set aside your ego, ego is nothing when you face your loved one. Give them tender and care as much as you can.

For girls, it's not guys want to lie to you always, sometimes they do that for you not to worry, beside if you truly love your partner, set aside your insecurities when you're with him.

Insecurities and egoism is the most common barrier that separates a couple.

Lastly, the highest value a person can achieve through love is setting one free. Love as I said is a sacrifice, loving someone does not mean you need him/her to be always there for you that's why it unconditional. Agony and pain will always be there if you brush aside both of them, there's always chances. What's meant to be yours will always be yours, what's not no matter how hard we try and force ourselves, it will never be. Don't loose confidence in yourself because of that.

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You've been a reason and a season to me. There's no guarantees that you'll be lifetime but I am glad and happy that out of that 3 stages, you've fulfilled my life with 2. Most of all, out of the 4 seasons we've been through all just that maybe we aren't able to been through more.
Thank You.

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An Ending Is Not Necessarily An Ending, Every Ending Is A New Beginning.

Well, first off my special sem just ended, there's been turmoil and turbulence during this special sem. At the start, it was hard to cope with due to the reason for us being too free. Free till there's so much time to think of nonsense. It's pathetic! Really but now it has ended already and all of us are glad that it's finally over. Special semester is over embrace yourself for a new long semester! Therefore every ending is a new beginning.

This special semester will be my most unforgettable special semester. I realized a lot of things, but through the realization i found nothing that i understood. Confusing eh? Yeah that's why my blog is called crazy philosophies. There are things which sometimes i think i can't find a solution to myself as well. Through so much thinking at the end of the day all i got was stucked. I always tell my friend that solutions are based on ourselves and mainly affected by our opinion. If you ask people it only adds to the support but at the end of the day it's yourself that makes the call. But to me I find that sometimes i don't have that courage to make that decision. Crap rite? Sometimes life can be easy, it's just that we think too much of other things that adds to the contradiction, which gives us trouble to make decisions. Lame right?

I do feel a bit astray lately. It's like I am scattered apart, a few pieces here, a few pieces there. Should need sometime to pick up those missing pieces and grab hold of my life again! Memories will remain deep in me, but it's time to move on. Every ending will be a beginning.

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Appearance For A Reason , Season and A Lifetime

People come into your life for a reason, a season or a lifetime. When you know which one it is, you will know what to do for that person.. When someone is in your life for a REASON, it is usually to meet a need you have expressed. They have come to assist you through a difficulty, to provide you with guidance and support, to aid you physically, emotionally or spiritually. They may seem like a godsend and they are. They are there for the reason you need them to be. Then, without any wrongdoing on your part or at an inconvenient time, this person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end. Sometimes they die. Sometimes they walk away. Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand. What we must realize is that our need has been met, our desire fulfilled, their work is done. The prayer you sent up has been answered and now it is time to move on.

Some people come into your life for a SEASON, because your turn has come to share, grow or learn. They bring you an experience of peace or make you laugh. They may teach you something you have never done. They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy. Believe it, it is real. But only for a season.

LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons, things you must build upon in order to have a solid emotional foundation. Your job is to accept the lesson, love the person and put what you have learned to use in all other relationships and areas of your life.. It is said that love is blind but friendship is clairvoyant.

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This is what happens when Fuel keeps on increasing!
Enjoy the video I present you to me i think it's ideal Environment Friendly :)

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Global price of oil reaching US$200 (RM660) per barrell

Shall we as citizens prepare to face the fact that we would not be protected for long? PM says that there'll be no more increase in fuel prices for this year, note, this year only.. how many months to next year? How much more can the citizens be able to adapt to the shock of increasing of fuel prices? It's like slamming a rock down onto your face directly, what we earn every single cent is through hardship, sweat and worst some even with blood, with the increase of fuel, no matter how hard we try, like or dislike we still need to pay for our cars. Can't there be a solution to this fuel increase issue? If there is an solution be sure to introduce ASAP for we as citizens won't be able to withstand the shock much more.

Besides, we as a growing country we can't be burdened always with the issues that's going on in the world and we have the advantage of exporting oil. So in a way it's ridiculous we as a nation are burdened by the fuel increase issue. It's unhealthy for the nation and most important for the people.